i'm feeling very blah today. i ran twice, which i needed because otherwise, nothing exciting happened and sometimes that just gets me down. not that i'm a stimulus whore all the time but the mundane does wear on me.
so, something bothersome happened at work. it's not work related though. lisa, my best friend that's a girl (and whom i trust completely), was telling me this story (gossip) about this dude that works with us. i don't know him well, but he's always been extremely nice to me. i didn't know his name so inquired with her. apparently, he's just been left by his wife. she just up and left. lisa explained how they were having problems and had thought about counceling. but, she decided she did not want to and left him. he's been heartbroken and missed 4 days of work. so, lisa goes on and on about how he's such a nice guy, and how could she do that.. blah blah. and, i'm on the fence. yes, he seems pretty great but at the same time - i'm sure she had her reasons. i guess it just made me feel kind of bad. it made me feel like people think i'm the bad one. which, maybe it's true, but they never understand the whole story. i know people make judgements based on what they know and usually, it is on inaccurate or incomplete data. but hell, that's life. so anyway, it feels like a week of hearing about how nice guys finish last.
posted by Mar at 10:20 PM